Work Happy Now! One of My New Favorite Blogs

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If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain. –Maya Angelou

I recently discovered Karl Staib’s site Work Happy Now! and I love it. There is a lot of information out there these days, both in books and online, about how to leave the rat race behind. You can read about finding ways to live on one income so that one spouse can stay home, starting your own business so you don’t have to work for someone else, and escaping the cubicle to get out of your boring 9 to 5. Many of these are great resources to inspire those who are unhappy in their jobs. For some people, though, quitting or starting a business simply isn’t an option right now. For a variety of reasons, it may be necessary for someone to stay at her current job, even though she may not love the work.

This is where Work Happy Now! comes in. Karl realizes that a lot of people are doing work they don’t particularly enjoy, so he’s doing everything he can to help people find joy where they are. If leaving isn’t an option, with Karl’s help, it’s possible to find some happiness rather than simply enduring every work day.

The posts on the site are excellent and inspiring. For example, the post titled, 21 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Monday, helps us re-frame the way we do our work. Here are Karl’s 21 questions:

1. What is one thing I can enjoy about each person that I come into contact with today?
2. What is the most important thing I need to do today?
3. Who can use a compliment today?
4. How can I make someone laugh?
5. Where can I optimize my strengths?
6. When my motivation dips, how can I stimulate myself to take action?
7. Who needs my help today?
8. What three people do I need to support to improve my work relationships?
9. Who can teach me a valuable skill to improve my job?
10. Am I being my true self at work?
11. What is one task or routine that I can eliminate?
12. What is the best part of my job?
13. Why am I good at my job?
14. What would be my ultimate job? And am I building towards it?
15. Who is my role model at work?
16. What can I do to become more engaged with my work?
17. What matters most to me at my job?
18. How can I lead the people around me to improve their happiness?
19. When I’m stressed out, how do I cope with these feelings?
20. Why do I assume I know what my coworkers are thinking?
21. How can I make my work more fulfilling?

In addition to thought-provoking, action-oriented posts, Karl has created the Happy At Work Project, a free 12 page workbook. In the workbook, he discusses the planner he uses that includes resolution ideas. He will email these to you if you ask, along with an explanation of how to use them. I’ve been working on the resolutions for a few days now and I’ve noticed an improvement in my outlook.

Karl’s not selling anything here and neither am I. I genuinely like his site and wanted to share some of its coolness with you. You can find the Work Happy Now! blog by clicking on the link. You can also find Karl on Twitter @WorkHappyNow.

Do yourself a favor and pay him a visit.

Photo Credit: Tim Patterson

Giving

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Part of being ecologically and socially responsible citizens is giving back, either of your time or your money, or both. Helping others and helping the planet are both areas that I am interested in working on more. In the last couple of years, I’ve tried to become more deliberate about my giving — planning ahead of time how I want to give rather than handing some money over to each cause that pulls at my heart strings. Ultimately, this is the best decision for me. It allows me to give more to the causes I care about, which allows my gift to have more of an impact.

There are a few ways I like to give. Keep in mind that this is what works for me and it may not be the best option for you.

Large Organizations. There are a few large organizations whose work and vision are aligned with my own values. When possible, I like to give to them. A few of my favorites are Kiva, Environmental Working Group, and Healthy Child, Healthy World. Each of these groups can effect far more change than I can on my own. They are also devoted to truly making a difference, and less interested in lining the pockets of the people who run them.

Groups that provide a service I use. Public radio comes to mind first here. I regularly listen to NPR and believe I should contribute when possible because I get so much value from their programming. I also donate to the public library (usually in the form of books), because I’ve gotten a great deal of value from the services they provide as well.

Individuals. In many ways, contributing to other individuals is the most rewarding. It’s much easier to see the direct impact of the gift. The beauty of helping other people directly is that there are so many ways to help. All it takes is the willingness to listen for what’s needed and the effort to find a way to provide it. Some examples: I have worked in a high school where several of us learned that a young lady wanted to attend her senior prom, but because of her family’s circumstances, she was unable to afford the required formal attire. Someone took the initiative to let other faculty members know, and after collecting a small donation from each of us, not only was the young lady able to buy a dress and shoes, but she had enough to enjoy a nice dinner as well.

Another example, one of my favorites, comes from Jason at Frugal Dad. He says that each year his family goes out to eat on Christmas Eve. They intentionally choose a very modest restaurant, usually Waffle House or something similar. Once they’ve finished their meal, they leave a $100 tip. His rationale is that anyone working at a Waffle House on Christmas Eve could probably use the money.

Random Acts of Kindness don’t have to be monetary, though. Simply being thoughtful enough to take care of something for someone else can make a considerable difference in a person’s day.

Sometimes the things other people need are very “big” to them because of the situation they are in. Depending on your own situation, it may be that what someone else needs is relatively easy for you to provide. I’d encourage you to listen for opportunities to do what you can for others. . . not only because it’s a decent thing to do, but because it does wonders for your own sense of well-being.

What do you think? How do you like to give?

Photo Credit: Mr Kris

Square Foot Garden: Year 1

It’s been a good year with our first garden. I thought I’d show you the various stages once again.

Winter & building the boxes.

winter-gardenSpring & getting the fence up. There are SO MANY deer.

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First plants coming up.

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Squash plant.

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Bush beans and herbs.

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Tomatoes are getting tall.

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Even taller — holy tomatoes, Batman!

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After getting the fence up, the final project for the garden area this year was adding some crushed stone over weed-fabric. Hopefully, it will continue to keep the weeds down. The tomatoes are winding down and the beans and squash are long finished.

We learned a lot this year and there are some things I’ll do differently. I’m also eager to try some new varieties of plants. We’re even talking about expanding the garden area and creating a plot on the other side of the detached garage. We’re thinking about trying our luck with corn and maybe some pumpkins over there.

Overall, this was a great experience and one we’re eager to continue. Look for updates on our continuing gardening adventures.

How did your garden grow this year?